Adult Psychotherapy
People come to psychotherapy for many reasons,
but all of them have to do with suffering.
Whether you’re suffering from feelings of sadness,
melancholy, or anxiety, or if you’re frustrated with overeating,
procrastination, or relationship issues, psychotherapy can help
you to gain some clarity about your situation. Most people
should have therapy at some point; we all suffer simply
because life isn’t easy.
Insight oriented, psychodynamic psychotherapy aims to
help you understand your “symptom” (sadness, etc.) not as
something to be rid of, like a tumor, but as a sign that
something in your life isn’t working. If you have noticed
repetition in the ways you behave (always dating the same
sort of people, or always overeating at night) or feel
happy at work, sad at home, then most likely there is
something occurring for you psychologically that may not
be easy to identify. Just because we desire change doesn’t
make it easy to change.
When we engage in repetitive patterns of thinking,
feeling or behaving, there is a reason for this – a
“logical” reason psychologically speaking, though this
reason isn’t “logical” to our conscious minds.
Why not simply eat less? Why not date better people?
Why not just stop constantly worrying?
What we discover in insight-oriented psychotherapy
is that you have very good reasons for the repetition.
Oftentimes, these reasons began in childhood or
adolescence, and continue to exert their pressure today.
Once you become conscious of the subtle influences that
affect your mood or behavior in daily life, it becomes
easier to tolerate not repeating those things that are
fundamentally hurtful. Psychological energy can be freed up
for creative endeavors and more authentic relationships.